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25Jan 2011 by Pase Garrett

Whose problem is it anyway?

Tips & Tools

One of the many little posters my parenting instructor used read, “Whose problem is it, anyway?” He tried to teach us to recognize which problems were ours (as parents) and which problems really “belonged” to the children.

15Nov 2010 by Pase Garrett

Consequences or Solutions?

Setting limits, Tips & Tools

Solutions help children learn from their mistakes - and invite both responsibility and dignity

25Oct 2010 by Pase Garrett

Why Kids Lie and What to do About It

Mutual Respect, Tips & Tools

Contributed by Melanie Miller, M.Ed.

Lying is one of those behaviors that can certainly bring up a lot of strong feelings in parents. Understanding why kids lie and what we can do as parents to decrease lying, and promote honesty, can be a welcome relief! The following information is from a TV interview with Certified Positive Discipline Trainer, Dodi Blomberg (www.dodieblomberg.com) and the book Positive Discipline A-Z; 1001 solutions to Everyday Parenting Problems by Jane Nelsen Ed.D. et.al.

Why do children lie? ➢ They feel trapped ➢ Are afraid of punishment ➢ Scared of rejection ➢ Feel threatened ➢ Think …

Try Kindness and Firmness at the Same Time

Being kind and firm at the same time helps keep peace at home and teaches our children the skills they need to be kind with others while still respecting themselves.